Post by family on Jul 16, 2008 20:57:43 GMT -8
Hello,
I am new to this forum. I am married, have a 17 year old stepdaughter who lives with us full-time.
SD17 had extreme animosity when we got married. She called me a prostitute, a gold-digger, mocked me, etc.
She has broken into our bedroom while my husband and I were in bed nekkid, and stared at us in a very strange way...She has tried to get my husband out of bed at night for no reason, many times...she walks around naked, holding a loose towel (not actually wrapped in a towel-in front of my husband...she kissess him on the lips - not a "peck" , but a loooong, full-lip, slow kiss...mouth half-open-and the only thing stranger than that was the way she stared at me while she kissed her father that way...something in her eyes was a mix of hatred, jealousy...I am not sure what, exactly....
It has been very bizzarre - as if she is a jealous woman and not a child.
I kept trying to reassure myself that she is a child, it's the stress of step-family, etc...
But I must admit, it has been very strange-I have never seen this before between any father and daughter. I have felt guilty, and kept trying to tell myself I am overreacting. I have only read about CI yesterday. It's as if I was reading about them, oh, how w-eee-ei-iird !
SD17 has alcohol and drug problems, lies compulsively and is in constant need for attention. She is very averse to teachers, school, and adults in general.She has random sex with boys-but seems to struggle to have a relationship with a boyfriend.
Her favorite song , that she yelps outloud is " ...Hell yeah, I'm a mother-f***ing Princess !"
Ohhh....I don't know what to think, but thanks for listening.
I am new to this forum. I am married, have a 17 year old stepdaughter who lives with us full-time.
SD17 had extreme animosity when we got married. She called me a prostitute, a gold-digger, mocked me, etc.
She has broken into our bedroom while my husband and I were in bed nekkid, and stared at us in a very strange way...She has tried to get my husband out of bed at night for no reason, many times...she walks around naked, holding a loose towel (not actually wrapped in a towel-in front of my husband...she kissess him on the lips - not a "peck" , but a loooong, full-lip, slow kiss...mouth half-open-and the only thing stranger than that was the way she stared at me while she kissed her father that way...something in her eyes was a mix of hatred, jealousy...I am not sure what, exactly....
It has been very bizzarre - as if she is a jealous woman and not a child.
I kept trying to reassure myself that she is a child, it's the stress of step-family, etc...
But I must admit, it has been very strange-I have never seen this before between any father and daughter. I have felt guilty, and kept trying to tell myself I am overreacting. I have only read about CI yesterday. It's as if I was reading about them, oh, how w-eee-ei-iird !
SD17 has alcohol and drug problems, lies compulsively and is in constant need for attention. She is very averse to teachers, school, and adults in general.She has random sex with boys-but seems to struggle to have a relationship with a boyfriend.
Her favorite song , that she yelps outloud is " ...Hell yeah, I'm a mother-f***ing Princess !"
Ohhh....I don't know what to think, but thanks for listening.