Post by druskininkai on Nov 13, 2007 16:19:12 GMT -8
Hi, I'm a new member my name is liz. The father of my son (2years) is the victim of covert incest by his mother. He has never had much to do with my son but now his mother has said she wants the child taken to her and he is now applying for court orders here there and everywhere telling dreadful lies about me. I'm terrified for my son's welfare.
Post by silverstar on Nov 13, 2007 20:57:08 GMT -8
Welcome. One suggestion might be this, and I base it on personal experience. Your local domestic violence counseling. My second husbund, not the husband who experienced covert incest, was abusive. While the domestic counseling won't deal with covert issues, I found that the manipulation tactics between the 2 spouses were quite similar. My second husband, father of the 2 boys I have custody of, told lies etc. Bottom line was, I was able to show consistant quality care and nothing he said held water. The counseling may help steer you in the right direction and help calm some of the fear and anger you may be experiencing with this latest development. It's at least hands on support or they may be able to direct you to an agency that can be of more help. I hope that help get you started.