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[norespect]

Hi, I'm norespect.
I just found this website while looking for info on emotional incest. I'm dating someone whose relationship with his mother makes me a little uncomfortable. I'm not even sure that I'm not overreacting but something seems a bit odd.
I've read a couple of books and I am educating myself
on the subject and hopefully my bf will read them. I don't know if he'll see anything that relates to him. It's a little scarey. I look forward to learning more from all of you.

[wifetobe]

Welcome!!

I am glad you found the site. Don't feel you are overreacting. I know that is easy to say, but you most likely are not. If you feel "icky" or like something is strange, then most likely there is. With me, I just could not put my finger on what is was, at first. That made me feel crazier. I couldn't quite explain what was wrong, but there was something wrong.

I am glad you are reading some books. Which books? I am always on the hunt for a good book on the subject. Hopefully he will be willing to read them, too. My husband (of 3 and a half weeks, so he was just bf) read most of the Ken Adams book. He, for some reason, can't make himself read the last chapter or two on commitment and solutions. He said the commitment chapter is boring, and that is not a problem, anymore. I think it is, with jobs and stuff like that, but not about him commiting to us.

Actually, I have to run. We are going to our very first therapy session today. We are supposed to be there in about 20 minutes.

I know this is a scary thing to go through. It is really hard to bring up to your bf, or at least it was for me. And then, the name of the abuse is so harsh sounding!!

I am glad you are here, and I will get back with you!! If you have any questions, feel free to ask. You can say anthing you want to on this site. Well, within reason of course.

Try to have a great day!

WTB