Post by cricket on Jul 16, 2023 11:57:32 GMT -8
I just wanted to write a short note here. Not wishing to go into too much detail at the moment but wishing to not lurk here either.
My husband and I have been married for 13 years now and have many problems with communication and intimacy. It is not that he is mean or I pregnant dog too much, I mean I would call him my best friend. BUT when it comes to what one wants out of a loving and sexual relationship... he cannot give me the kind of attention and passion I need. I, myself, am a survivor of sexual incest (not rape).
We are able to talk about these issues with my instigation always, but we never come up with resolutions, compromises, nothing. The conversation just fizzles out cuz he has nothing left to say and I get tired of repeating myself.
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NOT UNTIL TODAY did I hear this term covert incest. I saw someone online mention emotional incest and it just clicked for me. That explains him and his moms relationship perfectly!!! Now that I can put a finger on, I can stary taking steps forward with him because neither of us wish to be apart from the other.
My husband and I have been married for 13 years now and have many problems with communication and intimacy. It is not that he is mean or I pregnant dog too much, I mean I would call him my best friend. BUT when it comes to what one wants out of a loving and sexual relationship... he cannot give me the kind of attention and passion I need. I, myself, am a survivor of sexual incest (not rape).
We are able to talk about these issues with my instigation always, but we never come up with resolutions, compromises, nothing. The conversation just fizzles out cuz he has nothing left to say and I get tired of repeating myself.
\ NOT UNTIL TODAY did I hear this term covert incest. I saw someone online mention emotional incest and it just clicked for me. That explains him and his moms relationship perfectly!!! Now that I can put a finger on, I can stary taking steps forward with him because neither of us wish to be apart from the other.