Post by surreal on Feb 25, 2014 11:47:20 GMT -8
I'm grateful for this site. I'm in a relationship with a heavily covertly incested man. We have been together for 3 years and at first I didn't know what I was witnessing but it made my head spin. I watched over time and literally uncovered the source of all his monumental dysfunctions. I feel tortured loving him and I will write my story here and seek help. It has been a very long road but he doesn't deny this which is good. I forwarded information for him to read and he is finally waking up but the damage from what I see is irreparable on just about every level.
For now I'll say my hello and again am grateful for this site as it is helping me immensely. I too have come from a dysfunction upbringing with parents who were anything but. I was best friends with my dad and had a hatred based relationship with my mother who was jealous and hateful towards me. So I've been messed with but I got out when I was extremely young and made my way in the world to escape further damage.
I recall the hair that broke the camels back was when my mother propositioned me to have a MÉNAGE À TROIS with her friends. Did I say I was only 16 at the time and a virgin? Well I got out then. I recall some other very inappropriate things that were disturbing.
As for my BF he is a victim of this and I need to learn as much as I can if we stand any chance at all. He is hopeful about us but I'm not sure that he realizes the gravity of his dysfunction and damage. I know he really wants to be with me and is hoping to marry me but I'm ill with the level of covert incest that is sickening to me. He is literally her surrogate husband and his father is grateful because it allows him to vacate and live his own life (what ever that is) out there while son plays husband to his mother wife.
Well I'll write more on this story and my disturbing discoveries.
For now I'll say my hello and again am grateful for this site as it is helping me immensely. I too have come from a dysfunction upbringing with parents who were anything but. I was best friends with my dad and had a hatred based relationship with my mother who was jealous and hateful towards me. So I've been messed with but I got out when I was extremely young and made my way in the world to escape further damage.
I recall the hair that broke the camels back was when my mother propositioned me to have a MÉNAGE À TROIS with her friends. Did I say I was only 16 at the time and a virgin? Well I got out then. I recall some other very inappropriate things that were disturbing.
As for my BF he is a victim of this and I need to learn as much as I can if we stand any chance at all. He is hopeful about us but I'm not sure that he realizes the gravity of his dysfunction and damage. I know he really wants to be with me and is hoping to marry me but I'm ill with the level of covert incest that is sickening to me. He is literally her surrogate husband and his father is grateful because it allows him to vacate and live his own life (what ever that is) out there while son plays husband to his mother wife.
Well I'll write more on this story and my disturbing discoveries.
