Hello, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 1 year. We struggle with our sex life. She cannot receive and is very scared, confused around sex unless she is the one giving. She and her mother have a very CI relationship. I myself am just learning about this concept and so is she. She started individual therapy a couple months ago to address her insecurities and her therapist has shed more light on this. She is obviously embarassed and scared.
My question is, will the intimacy improve between us? I am in love and being patient but it is very difficult.
Also, I would like to raise children with her, but I don't want her mother in the picture or aound my children. I don't know what to do.